Oh…the flying monkeys

Some people think it’s within their rights to ask you questions that are insensitive, especially when they are questioning your choices to get out of a toxic environment. If you’ve had to remove these toxic people from your life because they just cannot seem to understand your boundaries, do you get questions like “what? How…

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Disobedience or Boundaries?

A common thread with abusers is they seek out people who they can manipulate. They look for empaths, for people who are more emotional, and people who have been “trained” to obey without question. Notice I said, “without question.” That’s because In some cases, okay a lot of cases, it’s good to be obedient. From…

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A Snippet of my Past

I am going to attempt to talk about something that really only my family and my husband’s family know about. Talking about my relationship with my mom is a particularly tough subject for me, mostly because I’ve worked really hard to get past some of these things. The problem is? I don’t think I’ve fully…

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